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    I’m in a super depressed mood today because my friendship with this guy seems to be crumbling. Just no matter what I do, I can’t get him to appreciate me. He treats me like he’s doing me a favor by being my friend, and now when I really need him, he’s not there for me, no matter how bad things get for me, he won’t do even the simplest thing to help. Maybe I’m just expecting too much, idk. The whole situation has me confused and making me feel like I’m just a burden but, like I’m pretty sure friends are supposed to be there for you, like those traveling sisters with the pants.

    I’m also in love with this particular friend (he’s straight tho), so that just adds a layer of complication on everything. It’s just so disappointing to realize that you can’t rely on ANYONE but yourself. Like, no matter how often someone has been there for you in the past it’s only a matter of time before they let you down and leave you on your own.

    Sorry for the rant.

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    I’m fucking stoned. You drunk bitches should try it, it’s healthier than alcohol.

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    Gonna try quiting internet for two weeks (except for the games section). Let’s see how that goes, being from generation Z is so hard.

    Leaving cocaine is easier than this.

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    I’m currently in family vacation and the family dynamics kinda suck. I’m dealing with it by getting drunk every night. No one has noticed yet.

    Update on this: my sister doesn’t talk to me anymore and I’m extremely drunk right now.

     

    GIVE LENA HEADEY HER EMMY

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    Update on this: my sister doesn’t talk to me anymore and I’m extremely drunk right now.

    Do you want your sister to be talking to you?

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    Leaving cocaine is easier than this.

    oh I love cocaine

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    Do you want your sister to be talking to you?

    Yes tbh. She has been an absolute asshole to me the whole week for no apparent reason. I still talk to but she doesn’t answer. Everything is very weird but the vacation hasn’t been a disaster since everyone is very hypocritical and is pretending everything is fine. My brother is still very fun to have around though.

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    Yes tbh. She has been an absolute asshole to me the whole week for no apparent reason. I still talk to but she doesn’t answer. Everything is very weird but the vacation hasn’t been a disaster since everyone is very hypocritical and is pretending everything is fine.

    My sister is terrible too, but she prefers being a bitch and insulting me and try to make me angry then give me the silent treatment. It’s nice yall can just put shit to side so everything doesn’t get ruined.

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    It’s nice yall can just put shit to side so everything doesn’t get ruined

    Yeah I’m having a blast during the day tbh. The nights are harder but alcohol helps.

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    but alcohol helps.

    Always. I miss it a lot right now.

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    I’m in a super depressed mood today because my friendship with this guy seems to be crumbling. Just no matter what I do, I can’t get him to appreciate me. He treats me like he’s doing me a favor by being my friend, and now when I really need him, he’s not there for me, no matter how bad things get for me, he won’t do even the simplest thing to help. Maybe I’m just expecting too much, idk. The whole situation has me confused and making me feel like I’m just a burden but, like I’m pretty sure friends are supposed to be there for you, like those traveling sisters with the pants.

    I’m also in love with this particular friend (he’s straight tho), so that just adds a layer of complication on everything. It’s just so disappointing to realize that you can’t rely on ANYONE but yourself. Like, no matter how often someone has been there for you in the past it’s only a matter of time before they let you down and leave you on your own.

    Sorry for the rant.

    That certainly complicates things. That’s how today’s “friendships” are. Pretend, pretend, pretend in order to survive. True friendship is rare. And I’m tired of this. I’ve never had real friends, they’ve all been either problematic or people that stayed in my life temporarily or even briefly. In your case, are you really in love with him? If yes, you should confess. It might end your friendship but it will be liberating for the both of you. Unless you really need him in your life in order to, as I said, survive.

    My friend did that to me. She said she was offended by the way I tell truth on her like telling her that she eats a lot more than me, that her mouth can’t stop babbling for just a minute, and that she needs to limit her self from judging other people. After that, she told me that she don’t want to be friends with me anymore and we’re not talking with each other since then. I feel violated because she always calls me stuffs like “foolish”, “useless”, “worthless”, and more self-degrading words but I don’t react that much especially in front of her. I even helped her in her studies answered most of her academic assignments. As of now, she disconnected herself from me not just physically, but also in social media. God, I greatly despise her act against me.

    Well, it’s better to be done with such a toxic person than keep them in your life. The problem is her and not being able to stand the truth. Poor you.

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    In your case, are you really in love with him? If yes, you should confess. It might end your friendship but it will be liberating for the both of you. Unless you really need him in your life in order to, as I said, survive.

    I mean, I think I am, I know I love him more than anyone else in my life. And he knows, I told him a long time ago. At first it seemed like we just got closer as a result and things were good for a while. I don’t know where things started going wrong but he’s been distancing himself for a few months and now we barely talk and never see each other. I’m not sure my feelings for him anything to do with it, I hope not, but I know I’m pretty flirty towards him and that could be part of what’s driving him away.

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    I mean, I think I am, I know I love him more than anyone else in my life. And he knows, I told him a long time ago. At first it seemed like we just got closer as a result and things were good for a while. I don’t know where things started going wrong but he’s been distancing himself for a few months and now we barely talk and never see each other. I’m not sure my feelings for him anything to do with it, I hope not, but I know I’m pretty flirty towards him and that could be part of what’s driving him away.

    Well, since it’s so important to you, hold on tight then. How do you think he feels about you regardless distancing himself? Does he view you as an important friend of his and part of his life?

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    Well, since it’s so important to you, hold on tight then. How do you think he feels about you regardless distancing himself. Are you an important friend of his and part of his life?

    I thought I was, like we’ve had several serious conversations where we talk about how we love each and stuff, in a platonic way on his part of course, but still. And even not that long ago he was telling me about this girl he was trying to fuck, and I told him I didn’t wanna talk about it cuz it just makes me feel weird thinking about him being with other people, and he told me that he felt closer to me than any of his other friends so he only could talk to me about that stuff. So it sounds like I’m important to him, but now he acts like he wants nothing to do with me. I’ve been going through some bad stuff lately and I really thought he’d be there for me, but he wasn’t. I feel like a few months ago he would have been. I wonder if he’s just gotten tired of me, it wouldn’t be the first time.

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    Who needs to pay $150 an hour for therapy when you have this thread?

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