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July 20, 2019 at 9:32 pm #1202987705
I’m in a super depressed mood today because my friendship with this guy seems to be crumbling. Just no matter what I do, I can’t get him to appreciate me. He treats me like he’s doing me a favor by being my friend, and now when I really need him, he’s not there for me, no matter how bad things get for me, he won’t do even the simplest thing to help. Maybe I’m just expecting too much, idk. The whole situation has me confused and making me feel like I’m just a burden but, like I’m pretty sure friends are supposed to be there for you, like those traveling sisters with the pants.
I’m also in love with this particular friend (he’s straight tho), so that just adds a layer of complication on everything. It’s just so disappointing to realize that you can’t rely on ANYONE but yourself. Like, no matter how often someone has been there for you in the past it’s only a matter of time before they let you down and leave you on your own.
Sorry for the rant.July 20, 2019 at 11:18 pm #1202987764
I’m fucking stoned. You drunk bitches should try it, it’s healthier than alcohol.July 20, 2019 at 11:34 pm #1202987790
I’m currently in family vacation and the family dynamics kinda suck. I’m dealing with it by getting drunk every night. No one has noticed yet.
Update on this: my sister doesn’t talk to me anymore and I’m extremely drunk right now.
GIVE LENA HEADEY HER EMMYJuly 20, 2019 at 11:41 pm #1202987804
Do you want your sister to be talking to you?
Yes tbh. She has been an absolute asshole to me the whole week for no apparent reason. I still talk to but she doesn’t answer. Everything is very weird but the vacation hasn’t been a disaster since everyone is very hypocritical and is pretending everything is fine. My brother is still very fun to have around though.
GIVE LENA HEADEY HER EMMYJuly 20, 2019 at 11:47 pm #1202987812
Yes tbh. She has been an absolute asshole to me the whole week for no apparent reason. I still talk to but she doesn’t answer. Everything is very weird but the vacation hasn’t been a disaster since everyone is very hypocritical and is pretending everything is fine.
My sister is terrible too, but she prefers being a bitch and insulting me and try to make me angry then give me the silent treatment. It’s nice yall can just put shit to side so everything doesn’t get ruined.July 20, 2019 at 11:56 pm #1202987824This post was found to be inappropriate by the moderators and has been removed.July 21, 2019 at 12:02 am #1202987830
In your case, are you really in love with him? If yes, you should confess. It might end your friendship but it will be liberating for the both of you. Unless you really need him in your life in order to, as I said, survive.
I mean, I think I am, I know I love him more than anyone else in my life. And he knows, I told him a long time ago. At first it seemed like we just got closer as a result and things were good for a while. I don’t know where things started going wrong but he’s been distancing himself for a few months and now we barely talk and never see each other. I’m not sure my feelings for him anything to do with it, I hope not, but I know I’m pretty flirty towards him and that could be part of what’s driving him away.July 21, 2019 at 12:07 am #1202987845This post was found to be inappropriate by the moderators and has been removed.July 21, 2019 at 12:13 am #1202987854
Well, since it’s so important to you, hold on tight then. How do you think he feels about you regardless distancing himself. Are you an important friend of his and part of his life?
I thought I was, like we’ve had several serious conversations where we talk about how we love each and stuff, in a platonic way on his part of course, but still. And even not that long ago he was telling me about this girl he was trying to fuck, and I told him I didn’t wanna talk about it cuz it just makes me feel weird thinking about him being with other people, and he told me that he felt closer to me than any of his other friends so he only could talk to me about that stuff. So it sounds like I’m important to him, but now he acts like he wants nothing to do with me. I’ve been going through some bad stuff lately and I really thought he’d be there for me, but he wasn’t. I feel like a few months ago he would have been. I wonder if he’s just gotten tired of me, it wouldn’t be the first time.
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