Tye-Grr
I'm a lover of all things film and food, and there's nothing better than sharing the experience of both with great friends.
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January 1, 2016 at 3:31 pm #442013
I’m pretty much over this place because of certain people, but I’ll just leave this is as a final word- one of the last private convos I had with Babypook/Teri that made me decide that I didn’t want to have any personal contact with her. I have never had any vendetta against her (and despite her immature name calling, I STILL don’t), I have only engaged with her on these forums because I was either defending myself or someone else on here from her hateful words, even though she likes to twist other’s words around and act like she’s somehow always a victim and that the people who dislike her don’t have any reason. Silly, silly stuff.
Anyway, this is my last post on this subject, and if anyone wants any further proof of how bizarre Babypook’s thoughts were about our friendship and her constantly accusing me of being a follower of SF or something (which I absolutely wasn’t- I haven’t talked to him since he was banned, and besides, he and I had harsh words for each other on more than one occasion, though I came to respect his opnion and knowledge of film), you can PM me- there’s plenty.
The saddest part is that I genuinely appreciated Babypook at one point in time, and the nice things I have said to her publicly and privately still stand- she was a solid friend here on the forums when I had some rough times, and I will always appreciate that. But this new thing she is doing where she is just going out of her way to try to sell some bold faced lie about me has got to stop (I’m speaking for no one else but ME, I don’t know what everyone else’s stories are).
This exchange is circa December 2012/January 2013 and hasn’t been altered or edited in any way- the dates and time stamps are wonky because this site’s messaging system, like everything else, is buggy as fuck:babypook
That just might have been the straw that broke my back Tye. I’ve always liked you, but I’ve also wondered at your support of others against me. I’m not talking about disagreeing either. If you like, I could do that to you, but I never have.
I hope we can work this out, but if not, that’s the end of whatever cameraderie we’ve ever had here.
You actually have no idea what I’ve gone through with “Icky”. If you’d like to side with him, and Renaton, please be my guest.
January 03 at 12:11 pm Tye-Grr
You are right- I have no idea whatsoever about what you might have been through with Icky. I only laughed because of the context of the post, and the last sentence or two. I wasn’t even entirely sure that you two were being serious or if you guys have like a sarcastic friendship or something. There was absolutely no intention to hurt you.
As for my “support of others against you”, I have no idea what that means. I don’t have anything against anyone, even when I disagree. No one has done anything to me to make me hate them. I certainly haven’t conspired against anyone, least of all against you.
I’m sorry you feel this way and think that I’m doing something behind your back. That’s very disappointing for me because I thought that we were cool with each other and that you got me more than you obviously do.
And really? “Siding” with Renaton? Look Teri, it’s cool if you’d rather not be cool with me anymore. I’m not going to fight for your friendship. I didn’t think I’d have to.
December 30 at 02:55 pm Tye-Grr
I am driving home from work now, so if I don’t write back right away it is because I am on the road.
December 30 at 03:46 pm babypook
I’ll admit to being overly sensitive Tye. I am stressed right out, and you know why.
If I didnt want to remain friendly, I would simply have put you on ‘ignore’ and forgotten about it. But I felt compelled to tell you my feelings, as crazy as they may sound to you.
I’ll also tell you something else. About a year ago, I got a pm from someone who wrote me at home, especially to let me know that …..someone who is ‘friendly with me (sic)’ wrote to them and said that, any hostility between he and I is unimportant to them, and that any relationship built would have nothing whatsoever to do with my own feelings.
Hahahaha! I just read that over and I have to say, it’s difficult to state without just stating it.
Anyways, about Icky. A few months ago we got this letter from the big guy saying that as moderators, it was our DUTY to report (that little shit) if he makes an appearance again; that he doesnt deserve to be here because of the many personal attacks he made against him in the threads.
But, at this point, Icky had already written to me telling me he’s been banned, and wanting me to advocate with Tom to let him return. Seriously. So, I did. And then, I protected his irritating ass for months. Of course, he doesnt know that. And I’m not telling you this because I think I’m some kind of freaking hero. I just dont like going after anyone, believe it or not. I believe in second, third, and fourth chances. There is afterall, such a thing as redemption. I wanted to give you a peak at one of the sources of my irritation towards Icky, who revealed partial truths in his post (which I started, granted) and revealed things which shows what a classless jerk I think he is. And, you laughed with him at me.
So while I’m being honest, please dont mistake my reaction to any disagreement between us about films. That’s ridiculous. But you do and have supported others directly against something I’ve posted. I’d rather that you disagreed directly to me in the threads. I can take it, and I’d far prefer it because that sparks conversation, and you and I have had many many of those.
It’s hard to describe because it’s not like I’m objecting to anyone or numbers agreeing about a film that I dont happen to share the same feelings about. This is a subtler thing and has prompted me to write to you about it in the past, although, not as succinctly as this.
Also, I’d fight for your friendship, whether I’d ‘have to’ or not. There’s a vast collection of fools and ignoramouses here, and we sane folk need to stick together.December 30 at 04:09 pm babypook
What’s up Tye? Will I get any kind of response, good or bad from you now?
December 31 at 04:44 pm Tye-Grr
Sorry, I’ve been working all day (I just got home and I’ve been up since 3am) and I haven’t had the time to articulate the kind of response I wanted to give you. In short, to my knowledge, we’re fine. Obviously I’ll talk about it more in depth later, but I guess I just don’t understand what happened. I like to avoid drama at all cost, and keep in mind that I am not saying you are drama, I just don’t know how any of this came to be. I come on these boards, I post about movies and music, and I keep to myself and either agree it disagree with other’s opinions, never having a bias, unless someone gives me a reason to dislike them. I don’t form alliances, I don’t have a clique… In fact, you are the ONLY person I even message privately on these boards (aside from an occasional random message here or there from a few other posters). I’m still confused as to why you went off like that, and though you explained yourself, I don’t know… It was all just very weird for me. But anyway, I like letting bygones be bygones, so I’m just willing to move on and carry on as things were. Thank you for responding and caring. My quote earlier about not fighting for a friendship came out wrong- I guess I meant that I wasn’t going to beg you to stay my friend on here if you didn’t want to. I’m just not the type to do that.
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August 14, 2015 at 1:15 am #442003[quote=”babypook”]
Man, is he rather upset by all of this; entirely with his unstable ‘ex’ “friend” THs and his twin, unibrow….
LOL, you are SAD. You’re how much older than me? 20+ years? And yet you resort to grade-school bullying by calling me names centered around my appearance, like “unibrow”? Oh, but you’re one of the nicest posters on the forums! Of course! You and your minions are a joke.
This bullcrap was supposed to be over, but no, you have to carry it on, don’t you? Maybe this is one of those things you should stay out of, as you are out as you are in over your head.
Who is the minion here? hypocrite. You can stop the bullying right now.As for the unibrow comments, you probably have a high neaderthal DNA count, you lucky bastard. (from the Geograhic Program: Everyone living outside of Africa today has a small amount of Neanderthal in them, carried as a living relic of these ancient encounters. A team of scientists comparing the full genomes of the two species concluded that most Europeans and Asians have between 1 to 4 percent Neanderthal DNA.)
Just accept your heritage and be proud of it.This blather was supposed to be over, so get over it.
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I apologize for my original post in which I told the above user to “shut the f*ck up”. Instead, I’ll exercise my right to shut them up myself by ignoring their posts from here on. On a more sincere note, I actually apologize for this stupid personal issue carrying on and poisoning this thread. Babypook laid out the bait and I bit- then Melobruceiam did what they usually do and jumped in when it had nothing to do with them because they have a problem I guess, I don’t really know. Anyway- it won’t happen again.
ReplyAugust 13, 2015 at 6:05 pm #441999Man, is he rather upset by all of this; entirely with his unstable ‘ex’ “friend” THs and his twin, unibrow….
LOL, you are SAD. You’re how much older than me? 20+ years? And yet you resort to grade-school bullying by calling me names centered around my appearance, like “unibrow”? Oh, but you’re one of the nicest posters on the forums! Of course! You and your minions are a joke.
ReplyAugust 8, 2015 at 8:42 am #441988^With certain users, yeah, it is that petty. TomHardys story wasn’t about someone “torturing” an animal… A baby, a young child, harmed his pet, likely not knowing what he was doing. Why would you attack someone for sharing that on a thread about sharing things about yourself? It’s really sad and very unfortunate, but again, it’s not like TomHardys said that HE purposefully harms animals. So why would anyone feel compelled to make a petty remark like “I’m not surprised considering the source”? This is the side of Babypook that keeps me at a distance.
ReplyAugust 4, 2015 at 3:46 pm #441977I think its time for us to do another round of this
Here’s a template for everyone so we don’t need to think of what to add and what not too, of course add as you wish! Its all about getting to know fellow Derbyites
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Name: Tye Nevarez
Age: 28Country: USA
Sex: Male.
Sexual Orientation: Gay.
Relationship Status: Single AF.Occupation: Data Technician Supervisor for what is essentially an accounting firm for nearly all horse-racing tracks in America and abroad.
Personality: Humorous, self-depricating, friendly, and honest- I don’t ever want people to judge me without completely knowing who I am, so I do not hold back. I love being a people person- I’m one of those people who says “Hello” and “How are you” to strangers I pass by on the street, and I love getting to know people and where they come from; I find a lot of value in it.
Random Fun Fact: I grew up in a mixed race family (I myself am half white, half Mexican), and I have cousins who are mixed white/black/Korean/Chinese/Native American/ Portuguese/etc. Growing up, I was surround by many colorful faces and I love it. I hate racism, prejudices, etc., and I’m lucky to have grown up in the household I did, in the ghettos of Stockton, California, because it shaped a lot of my values and the way I see people for WHO they are, not WHAT they are. You don’t even know how often I get people who say, “How is so-and-so your cousin… He/She’s black?”, like people truly don’t understand how that works. *sigh*
Favorite Food: Pretty much all things Mexican (it’s my heritage- I grew up with it, and it’s my comfort food).
Favorite Drink: Water (boring, I know), and I drink way more coffee than I should, so I guess I’ll count that.
Favorite Movie: ‘Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind’ and also ‘Pulp Fiction’.
Favorite TV Show: ‘Breaking Bad’ and ‘Arrested Development’.
Favorite Musician/Band: Kanye West, Coldplay (shut up), Radiohead, Bjork, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Kendrick Lamar, Foo
Fighters, Led Zeppelin, M.I.A., Michael Jackson, OutKast, Prince, The White Stripes… many more.Favorite Book: The Great Gatsby.
Biggest Pet Peeve: People who have an attitude of entitlement.
Guilty Pleasure: Singing catchy but stupid songs at the top of my lungs on my commute to and from work.
First Film You Remember Seeing: It was either ‘The Wizard of Oz’, or ‘The Sound of Music’. They were my grandmother’s
favorites, and she watched them at least once a year.Places You’ve Travelled To: Barely out of my home state of California, sadly… Nevada and Oregon.
Places You’d Love to Travel To: EVERYWHERE. Right now I’ve been all about Scotland, and I would love to go to there.
Do you have any pets? I have had cats and dogs before, but none right now. My last pet, my dog Heath (named after Ledger) currently lives with my best friend’s mom because she has a large open yard and other dogs for him to play with, and my job requirements made it really hard for me to keep him and be able to properly care for him. 🙁
ReplyMay 18, 2015 at 8:32 am #398745This video for “Bad Blood”, aka cameo overload, is a mess and a waste of money. Lame. I do like the actual remix song tho…. Wasn’t expecting two Kendrick verses.
